She’s all over the world wide web now after that twerking almost naked with her mile-long tongue sticking out, and that video of her licking a sledgehammer and riding a wrecking ball naked. The netizens have called her a sl*t and she defended herself saying that people were missing the point of that video. It’s supposed to have a deeper meaning to her because of her breakup with her fiance and so on.
|Uhm…yeah…because when your heart gets broken, you should totally get naked to let everyone know your pain.|
It’s not that I don’t believe her. It’s just that when I see a video of a naked woman licking a sledgehammer, I see a naked woman licking a sledgehammer. I haven’t seen a male singer who went through breakup who had to go naked and lick some, I don’t know, a forklift or something? Sorry, I can’t think of any appropriate object right now.
It is very common for girls who went through a breakup to make an effort to make him “realize what he’s lost.” It’s ok if your course of action after is to go to the gym to make yourself healthier or focus on yourself a little more and develop a new skill. I strongly advice against jumping into another relationship immediately to make your ex jealous or go flirting with someone whom you know likes you (but you don’t really like him back). Or painting your face with so much makeup to make you look “pretty” (unless you know how to apply makeup properly), you might just end up looking like a clown. What I realized is this, it’s not always about revenge or making him realize your value. I think it’s more of YOU knowing YOUR value and just walking away. Why? Because if your actions are still based on how he is going to feel, you would still be under his control.
Just focus on yourself and how to make yourself better and happier for YOUR OWN SAKE. You might even want to wish him real happiness in life. It’s very liberating.
One last thing…KEEP YOUR CLOTHES ON.